hoangphuocdai

True love According to Buddhism, there are four elements of true love. The first is maitri, which can be translated as loving kindness. Loving kindness is not only the desire to make someone happy, to bring joy to a beloved person; it is the ability to bring joy and happiness to the person you love. Because even if your intention is to love this person, your love might make him or her suffer. Seeing your friend has headache, you anoint the wind oil bottle on her forehead. But you do not know that she is allergic to oil, do not like the smell of oil. The result is that action does not make her happy but also makes she was suffering. Such loving as injured ten times. Because if you do not understand this person, you cannot love properly. Understanding is the essence of love. If you cannot understand, you cannot love. That is the message of the Buddha. If a husband, for example, does not understand his wife’s deepest troubles, her deepest aspirations, if he does not understand her ...