Loving ( 2nd)

We know that in each person who also have  the seeds of love and seeds of sex. We all want be  loved by family, friends, and listen to our speak, understand what we say. But we often confuse love with sex. We must see what is love and what is sensual desire. When you see your husband or your wife did something wrong, we do not like, we just go find another partner. Then, when that partner inevitably certain to ​happen and ​unable to be ​avoided or ​prevented: does something we don’t like, we move on to the next.

The reason we continue to run foward and back, looking around like monkeys by ourselves do not get what is desire what is true love. You have to know that love and desire are different. When they were mixed together, we need to look at them deeply and make an effort to sort them out! Who we truly love with. Who's coming with me because of desire! We come with to her because she has virtue, good in housework, or because she is a legs long. If We come with her just, beauty, then day by day, month by month, when beauty fades,  we 'll go find another long legs, like monkeys so. We have the right view to see the impermanence there.

When Couple comes together. Maybe they have intimacy in physical or emotional or spiritual. Intimacy in spirit means when we see his face, her face  we will healthy, we really feel safety. This similarity may have or not have sexual demands. Physical intimacy can’t be separated from emotional intimacy; we always feel some emotional intimacy when we’re sexual, even if we profess not to.. Someone told her husband has not emotional when they near together. That is not true. Because he had emotions, but it is a sex emotion have, it can not be true. When couple really love each other by true love, physical and emotional intimacy can be healthy, healing, and pleasurable.