Physical intimacy in youngs

All of us want to continue into the future. This is true of humans, as well as of all other living things. Sex and sexual reproduction are part of life. Sex can bring great pleasure and enrich a deep connection between two people. We shouldn’t be against sex, but we also shouldn’t confuse it with love. True love doesn’t necessarily have to do with sex. We can love perfectly without sex.

Sexual intimacy shouldn’t occur before there is communion, understanding, and sharing on the emotional and spiritual level. The human body is beautiful. The tree, the flower,  the river, and the willow are also beautiful. We are surrounded by beauty, including the humans and animals that populate the Earth. But we have to learn how to treat beauty so that we don’t destroy it. When we see a beautiful weeping willow near by the lake, We must see it and watching such beauty, not use the hands break its for enjoy ourselves.

Our society is organized in such a way that sensual pleasure seems the most important thing. On webs always have some advertising paper in which manufacturers want to sell their products. Sex products. They advertise their goods and water the seed of craving in you. They want you to be caught by the desire for sensual pleasure.

When we was the first year students. left our house for study. The first date is the date by homesick lonely, remember loved ones. We may also need to be close to another person. But if, right away, we’re sexually intimate with someone we’ve just met, that relationship won’t heal or warm us. It will just be a distraction.

Loneliness can’t be dissipated by sexual activity. We can’t heal ourselves by having sex. We  have to learn how to be comfortable with ourselves. Once we have a spiritual path, we have a home. As Buddhists, we must learn the teachings of the Buddha. We should aware of the suffering caused by sexual misconduct. We must  cultivate responsibility and learn ways to protect the safety and integrity of individuals, couples, our families, society and ourself. We do not engage in sexual relations without love and a long term commitment. To preserve the happiness of ourselves and others.